A no is a no.

Last updated: [release date TBD]

CD is about making a little room for real plans. Keep it honest. Give people room to choose.

Unpublished Four Tracks draft. This page is prepared for a future backend and app release. The features and changes below are not live. Release dates, agreement wording, and controls marked [label TBD] still need review.

Be someone a person can say no to

A pass is a pass. Someone can change their mind, end a conversation, or block contact. Don’t pressure them to reply, follow them into another channel, or use another account to get around a block.

You can leave too. Pass, end the conversation, pause new invitations, or block. You don’t owe an explanation.

Be yourself

CD is for adults 18 and older. Use your own identity, accurate age, and photos that represent you. Don’t impersonate someone, misrepresent an ability, recruit minors, or help anyone evade an age or account restriction.

Flyers and events can set a minimum age from 18 to 100. Respect the listed requirement, including changes made after an ask is sent. An attached ask can’t invite someone under its age limit. If the asker falls below a raised limit, no more invitations are sent; open invitations can’t be replied to or accepted if either person is too young.

Keep the invitation honest

Say what you want to do. Don’t imply a normal hangout and then pressure someone into a date. Romantic interest needs to be explicit. An invitation setting doesn’t mean someone is free right now, and knowing how to do something doesn’t mean they owe you help.

An ask to find someone to go with should be honest about the activity, place, group, costs, and what you expect. Don’t pretend to represent a club or promise someone admission, a ticket, a place on a team, or a welcome you can’t arrange. A related interest doesn’t mean someone already does the activity or wants to teach it.

Some things have no place here

No harassment, stalking, threats, hateful abuse, sexual exploitation, pornography, coercion, scams, spam, illegal sales, or organizing harm.

Don’t share private addresses, identity documents, intimate content, or another person’s private information without their permission. Don’t attempt unauthorized access or evade an account or safety restriction.

Don’t use a club, flyer, or place listing to mislead people, conceal important conditions, promote a scam, or send someone into an unsafe situation. Report a listing that seems misleading, inappropriate, or unsafe.

Meet on your own terms

Agree on a public place and make your own choice about going. Identity verification isn’t a promise of safety. CD doesn’t track someone’s exact live location or guarantee their plans.

An approved listing doesn’t vouch for a group. Before your first club visit, check its current meeting details, age rules, costs, and expectations. Agree with your companion on where to meet. Saying you’re going to a flyer doesn’t book or confirm anything with the club or venue, and nobody owes attendance. Someone who welcomes newcomers can still decline an invitation or change their mind.

If there’s immediate danger, contact local emergency services. CD isn’t an emergency service.

Tell me when something is wrong

Report a person from an invitation or conversation. Review your report before sending. It includes your description and the original invitation. Private messages are included only if you select them in the conversation and preview the exact evidence you’re sharing.

I’m Brandon, and I review submitted concerns and the relevant account context. Private encrypted chat isn’t automatically readable by CD and isn’t sent to AI for blanket monitoring. A saved report means it’s waiting for review, not that a decision has already been made.

To report a club, flyer, or place, use its listing-report control, [label TBD]. Choose a reason: spam, misleading, unsafe, inappropriate, or other. These are the supported reasons; their final on-screen labels are [label TBD]. You can add up to 2,000 characters of text. Listing reports and reports about people share a limit of ten per day.

Reporting a listing hides it from your suggestions. If you report a flyer, any pending or going response you have for it is dismissed, it won’t be delivered to you again, and you can’t mark it as going. Reporting a club doesn’t stop that club’s other flyers. Reporting doesn’t hide a listing from browse lists or automatically remove it for everyone.

I review listing reports and may withdraw a listing for everyone. A listing report never suspends a person, and listing reports have no appeal.

Content and accounts may be restricted, removed, or suspended based on a documented concern about a person. If that decision seems wrong, use its reference in settings → privacy & safety → ask for another look, or email brandon@solsk.app. ask for another look doesn’t apply to listing reports. Support has the steps, and privacy explains report retention.